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10 things we need to let go of to be happy

January 14, 2021 by Moumous |

Hi everyone,

I decided not to post on Tuesday January 12, as a memorial to the terrible earthquake that happened back in 2010. Eleven years ago, I witnessed an horror movie turned into reality right before my eyes: More than 300,000 people were killed, several hundred thousand were injured and nearly 1.5 million were left homeless when the magnitude 7 earthquake hit Haiti on Jan. 12, 2010. I opted to spend the day remembering the deaths and expressing my gratitude to the almighty God for sparing me and my family from this catastrophe. I ended my day with a group of youth who invited me to give a speech on “Fashion & Handicap” as a way of celebrating life and a reminder that we should all make the best of today.  Talking to them about the purpose of our journey on earth and how short and unpredictable that journey fueled the inspiration behind today’s post. Here’s 10 things that we need to let go of to be happy.

1- Let go of toxic people

2- Let go of the past

3- Let go of the need to be right

4- Let go of being a victim

5- Let go of negative self-talks

6- Let go of the needs to impress others

7- Let go of all beliefs

8- Let go of the needs to please everyone

9- Let go of Gossip

10- Let go of the future

I will not further elaborate as each one of them will speak to us in a different way depending of where we are in our journey on becoming our better self. 

Outfit Details

Bomber @glamurboutique | bodysuit @Zara | Denim @lilophia

Sunglasses and shoes @Khiani | Handbag @thaliaboutique

Please comment below and share what are the things you must let go of in order for you to become a better version of yourself.

Thanks for stopping by.

XoXo,

Moumous

Linking up with those wonderful ladies here

Photo Credit @vonvonphotography

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  1. Dgie says

    January 20, 2021 at 7:01 pm

    I agree!
    Let go of caring too much 🙂

    • Moumous says

      January 28, 2021 at 7:46 pm

      lol- nope – pas toi 🙂

  2. Shelbee on the Edge says

    January 21, 2021 at 7:50 pm

    Fabulous outfit and jacket, Moumous! And what a brilliant post. I have let go of all of the things you listed many years ago except number 7. Letting go of beliefs is something that has happened naturally for me over this past year. I feel cleansed and ready to move forward with a clean slate. I feel much lighter because of it! And what a beautiful tribute to those lost in the 2010 earthquake. I have taken a moment to send some prayers.

    Shelbee
    http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com

    • Moumous says

      January 28, 2021 at 7:44 pm

      Thank you Shelbee for taken a moment to pray for the ones who died during the earthquake. 10 years later and it still seem as if it was yesterday. XO,

  3. Mica says

    January 24, 2021 at 10:16 pm

    What a fun statement jacket! it looks so good with the dark jeans as well 🙂
    Thanks so much for joining the #WeekdayWearLinkup!

    Away From Blue

    • Moumous says

      January 28, 2021 at 7:45 pm

      Thank you Mica

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    February 22, 2021 at 11:29 am

    Your blogs are easily accessible and quite enlightening so keep doing the amazing work guys.

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#personalstylist #personalshopper #stylecoach #imageconsultant #styletips
Every detail tells a story: The bold frames remind Every detail tells a story: The bold frames remind me to see the world differently, with courage and color. The white blazer reflects clarity, purpose, and a fresh chapter. And, the gold accents? A reminder that value comes from within, but shines brightest when you carry it with confidence.

For me, power dressing isn’t about looking intimidating, but about embodying authenticity. It’s the art of aligning how you present yourself on the outside with the strength and vision you hold within.

Because when you walk in your truth, style becomes your silent introduction. 

Beautifully captured by @stanvisual_official 

For @nofilterchannel, Elegance & Moi's new season is coming soon.

#StyleWithPurpose #BossEnergy #AuthenticElegance #ConfidenceInStyle
We are ready for fall #newarrival @glamurboutique We are ready for fall #newarrival @glamurboutique

#style #stylecoach #personalshopper #personalstylist
Styling is a calling that humbles you. Moments lik Styling is a calling that humbles you. Moments like this, kneeling on the floor, adjusting the delicate strap of a sandal, remind me that elegance isn’t just built in front of mirrors, but in the quiet details no one always sees.

Having the privilege to style fashion designer Stella Jean @stellajean_sj_ during her visit to Haiti @haifex.ht was more than work; it was a reminder of why I do what I do. It’s about service, attention, and the joy of seeing someone step into a look that makes them feel like their best self. The reward? That sparkle in their eyes when they stand tall, ready to take on the world.

Team nan gen backup - Thank you very much!

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#stylecoach #imageconsultant #personalshopper #personalstylist
C’est toujours l’été @glamurboutiquehaiti C’est toujours l’été @glamurboutiquehaiti 

#ideetenue #stylecoach #personalshopping #imageconsultant
Des idées tenues pour faire la transition 💃💃 @glamurboutiquehaiti 

#stylecoach #personalstyling #personalshopper
LaMoumous picks @glamurboutiquehaiti . Drop a comm LaMoumous picks @glamurboutiquehaiti . Drop a comment and let me know if you have any favorites?

#personalstylist #personalshopper #stylecoach #imageconsultant #styletips
Every detail tells a story: The bold frames remind Every detail tells a story: The bold frames remind me to see the world differently, with courage and color. The white blazer reflects clarity, purpose, and a fresh chapter. And, the gold accents? A reminder that value comes from within, but shines brightest when you carry it with confidence.

For me, power dressing isn’t about looking intimidating, but about embodying authenticity. It’s the art of aligning how you present yourself on the outside with the strength and vision you hold within.

Because when you walk in your truth, style becomes your silent introduction. 

Beautifully captured by @stanvisual_official 

For @nofilterchannel, Elegance & Moi's new season is coming soon.

#StyleWithPurpose #BossEnergy #AuthenticElegance #ConfidenceInStyle
We are ready for fall #newarrival @glamurboutique We are ready for fall #newarrival @glamurboutique

#style #stylecoach #personalshopper #personalstylist
Styling is a calling that humbles you. Moments lik Styling is a calling that humbles you. Moments like this, kneeling on the floor, adjusting the delicate strap of a sandal, remind me that elegance isn’t just built in front of mirrors, but in the quiet details no one always sees.

Having the privilege to style fashion designer Stella Jean @stellajean_sj_ during her visit to Haiti @haifex.ht was more than work; it was a reminder of why I do what I do. It’s about service, attention, and the joy of seeing someone step into a look that makes them feel like their best self. The reward? That sparkle in their eyes when they stand tall, ready to take on the world.

Team nan gen backup - Thank you very much!

MUA @folyviv 
Camera @lucienphotography 

#stylecoach #imageconsultant #personalshopper #personalstylist
C’est toujours l’été @glamurboutiquehaiti C’est toujours l’été @glamurboutiquehaiti 

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