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4 Steps to Self Empowerment

August 5, 2020 by Moumous |

Hi everyone,

Happy Tuesday! I needed all the confidence in the world to pull off that overly distressed denim until I decided to do the look over with those black classy pants. Unfortunately, I felt more confident in the jeans. I love how they fit but I am not sure I should keep them. Anyway, today I wanted to talk about self-empowerment. The general meaning of Self-empowerment is taking control of our own life, setting goals, and making positive choices. Basically it means that we have to understand our strengths and weaknesses, and have belief in ourselves. To become more-self empowered, use this four-step process:

  • Know Yourself: understand your motivations, and your strengths and weaknesses.

  • Identify Your Goals: identify the aspects of your life that are the most important to you, and where you can create meaningful change.

  • Develop Your Competencies: focus on the skills or qualities that will allow you to reach your goals.

  • Claim Your Space: take your first few steps! Then review and reflect on your achievements so far, and adjust your approach if necessary. If it’s appropriate, seek feedback from the people around you to ensure that you stay on track.

So do you ever feel that you have no control over your life and work? If so, you need to focus on yourself and find your way to self empowerment and happiness. I hope those tips will somehow help you. Stay positive.

Outfit Details

Top & oversized Blazer @Glamur (similar top, similar blazer) | 

Distressed mom jeans @Lilophia (similar)| Handbag Zac Posen (same in black)

Shoes NW (similar) | Sunglasses (similar)


“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”– Eleanor Roosevelt

Thanks for stopping by.

XoXo,

Moumous

Linking up with those wonderful ladies here

*I will be posting video on my IGTV @lamoumous styling the oversized blazer and distressed denim different ways. Stay tune.

Moumous
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  1. Dgie says

    August 9, 2020 at 10:55 pm

    Loving that quote "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."– Eleanor Roosevelt and so true.
    This jeans is too distressed for my liking but Moumouss, you do manage to make it look elegant and class.

    • Moumous says

      August 16, 2020 at 12:57 pm

      lol- It's a love and hate relationship – hate it and surprised that I felt so good wearing it lmao

  2. the 4 M's says

    August 13, 2020 at 1:23 pm

    You look amazing in both! I think as we get older we usually start knowing ourselves better and become more confident.
    http://www.chezmireillefashiontravelmom.com

    • Moumous says

      August 16, 2020 at 1:03 pm

      Indeed Mireille- aging do help boosting confidence.

  3. highlatitudestyle says

    August 15, 2020 at 4:37 am

    Great looks. My fav is the casual version.

    • Moumous says

      August 16, 2020 at 12:58 pm

      lol – me too – although I'm not a fan of the distressed jeans.

  4. Mica says

    August 17, 2020 at 10:58 am

    Great tips and what a fun pink blazer – love it with the distressed denim!

    Thank you for joining the #weekdaywearlinkup!

    Hope that you had a lovely weekend 🙂

    Away From Blue

    • Moumous says

      September 13, 2020 at 4:06 pm

      Thank you Mica

  5. Shea Lennon says

    August 18, 2020 at 9:09 pm

    These are great tips, definitely important things to keep in mind! I also love that pink blazer!

    • Moumous says

      September 13, 2020 at 4:08 pm

      Thank you Shea 🙂

  6. Shelbee on the Edge says

    August 19, 2020 at 6:17 pm

    Great tips, Moumous! I will always and forever love super distressed jeans paired with a blazer and heels. It is one of my favorite combinations ever! You look fabulous. Thanks for sharing this inspiring post and linking up with me.

    Shelbee
    http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com

    • Moumous says

      September 13, 2020 at 4:10 pm

      Thank you Shelbee – the combo is a little bit out of my comfort zone – I am not a fan of distressed jeans but I am glad I decided to give it a "go" – did not return the jeans lmao

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Special gratitude to the Style Coaching Institute @stylecoachinginstitute for this recognition. What an absolute honor to be acknowledged by the organization that helped shape my passion into purpose.

The journey continues, and I’m taking you all with me! Get ready for more - I am going to spam you with all the excitement! 💫 

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To my amazing clients who trusted me with their transformation journeys - this award is truly for YOU. Your courage to step into your authentic style has inspired me every day.

Special recognition to all the incredible individuals in my empowerment programs - your resilience and transformation remind me why this work matters. Watching you reclaim your confidence and shine your light inspires me beyond words.

A heartfelt congratulations to all the brilliant finalists - today we win together! Your dedication to transforming lives through style is raising the bar for our entire industry.

To my husband, my kids who believe that mom is a super hero, my ride-or-die friends and unwavering support system (you know who you are) - thank you for believing in me even when I didn’t. None of this would have happened without your endless encouragement.

Special gratitude to the Style Coaching Institute @stylecoachinginstitute for this recognition. What an absolute honor to be acknowledged by the organization that helped shape my passion into purpose.

The journey continues, and I’m taking you all with me! Get ready for more - I am going to spam you with all the excitement! 💫 

#StyleCoachOfTheYear #ForeverGrateful #DreamComeTrue #StyleEmpowerment
And Just Like That... Season 1 of 'Elegance Et Moi And Just Like That... Season 1 of 'Elegance Et Moi with LaMoumous' has wrapped! 🎬✨ This YouTube series was created with one mission: to promote self-confidence and help you embrace your unique beauty.

Drop a comment and let us know which episode(s) was/were your favorite and what you'd love to see in our upcoming season!

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"Et voilà... La Saison 1 d'Elegance Et Moi avec LaMoumous vient de se terminer ! 🎬✨ Cette série YouTube a été créée avec une seule mission : promouvoir la confiance en soi et vous aider à embrasser votre beauté unique.

Laissez un commentaire pour nous dire quel(s) épisode(s) était/étaient votre/vos préféré(s) et ce que vous aimeriez voir dans notre prochaine saison !

Vous n'avez pas encore regardé toutes nos vidéos ? Pas d'inquiétude ! Nous avons créé une playlist spéciale où vous pouvez visionner l'intégralité de la Saison 1. Lien dans la bio ou commentez "LINK" pour recevoir la playlist dans vos messages privés. 💖

Merci pour tout votre soutien tout au long de cette aventure !

#EleganceEtMoi #Stylecoach #personalstylist #SelfConfidence #imageconsultant
Ton jean usé mérite une seconde vie 👖✨ Voic Ton jean usé mérite une seconde vie 👖✨
Voici 5 idées pour le styliser avec classe et sans effort !
Et si t’en as pas encore, le modèle parfait t’attend chez Glamur Boutique @glamurboutiquehaiti 😉

#Styletips #styleinspo #ideetenue #stylecoach #Imagecosultant #GlamurBoutique #LamoumousStyle
🌸✝️ Wishing you a blessed Easter. May this 🌸✝️ Wishing you a blessed Easter.

May this season of resurrection inspire you to rise in faith, realign with grace, and walk each day toward what God has placed within you.
Take this time to reconnect, lift your spirit, and believe "again" in yourself, your calling, and the One who leads your steps.

-------
🌸✝️ Joyeuses Pâques à vous qui me lisez.

Que cette saison de résurrection vous inspire à vous relever avec foi, à vous recentrer avec grâce et à avancer, jour après jour, vers ce que Dieu a déposé en vous.

Prenez le temps de vous reconnecter, d’élever votre esprit, et de croire "encore"en vous, en votre mission, et en Celui qui vous guide.

#lamoumous #stylecoach #imageconsultant #personalstylist #easterbunny #eastersunday 

@carlic9

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