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5 characteristics of a positive mindset (Part I)

December 29, 2022 by Moumous |

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Happy Holidays Everyone!

People with a positive mental attitude have an infectious way about them that compels others to gravitate in their direction. They’re optimistic, uplifting, and don’t give in to hopelessness even in the worst of times.  But what’s their secret? Can anyone develop a positive mindset, or are you born with it? 

The truth is, everyone can adopt a more positive mental attitude. And while a positive attitude doesn’t guarantee business success, developing a more positive orientation can improve your mood, relationships, and job and life satisfaction. Research has found that a positive outlook has a real impact on your physical health, too.

What does having a positive mindset look like exactly? Let’s explore five traits people with a positive mental attitude embody.

1. Resilience 

In positive psychology, resilience is being able to recover from stressful and challenging life events. Resilient people face difficult situations with ease and don’t give in to negative emotions during hard times. 

Take the Covid-19 pandemic as an example. Those who thrived during the uncertainty and stress of the pandemic had a consistently positive outlook and quickly adapted to their new environment. 

2. Courage 

Courage allows you to go after what you want without fearing failure, rejection, and other mind-made fears. Instead of fearing failure, courageous individuals embrace it as an opportunity to learn.

This positive mindset helps you reach your goals more easily and grow personally and professionally. 

3. Optimism

Optimism is the main pillar of a positive mental attitude. 

It’s important to note that optimism isn’t always thinking happy thoughts and dismissing problems. It’s about challenging negative thought patterns and reframing them into positive ones. 

A Harvard study found that optimism increased women’s survival rates from serious illnesses by 30%. An optimistic outlook is proven to improve health and well-being. 

4. Gratitude

People who feel thankful even for the smallest joys in life are happier and healthier. They show and feel an appreciation for the good things in their lives like family, good health, or even a sunny day. 

Practicing gratitude by keeping a gratitude journal is a common habit among those with a positive mindset. 

5. Acceptance

We’re naturally inclined to judge a situation in our life as good or bad. But what if we stop judging it as positive or negative and just allow it to be? 

This is the concept behind radical acceptance — accepting things as they are. This mindset allows you to take the best course of action in any situation because you don’t have a negative attitude when things go south.

See also: Coping with what you can’t control

I hope you enjoyed this piece. There are actually 10 characteristics (in my opinion) that someone with a positive mindset should have. I will give you my opinion in the next one. In the meantime, thank you for stopping by.

Xo,

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  1. Carol says

    January 5, 2023 at 10:35 pm

    You’re so right about the characteristics of a positive attitude. I think it’s so important to maintain a positive attitude, even when things don’t seem to be going our way. Thank you for sharing this post in the Talent-Sharing Tuesdays Link-Up 47.
    Carol
    http://www.scribblingboomer.com

  2. Jeremy@ThirstyDaddy says

    January 10, 2023 at 2:17 am

    #5 is the key for me. I think many people would benefit from just being able to let things go and move on more easily instead of fretting over every little thing #pocolo

    • Moumous says

      January 15, 2023 at 5:25 pm

      It’s actually a challenge. That’s why we need to practice Mindfulness in other to get there. the struggle is real!
      Xo,

  3. Jacqui Berry says

    January 12, 2023 at 8:46 pm

    Some good points here Hunny, thanks so much for sharing on my #Chicandstylish linkup this week. Jacqui x

    • Moumous says

      January 15, 2023 at 5:23 pm

      Glad to join the party 🙂

  4. Carol says

    January 15, 2023 at 7:07 pm

    Thank you for sharing this post in the Talent-Sharing Tuesdays Link-Up 48.
    Carol
    http://www.scribblingboomer.com

  5. Suzy Turner says

    January 16, 2023 at 12:07 pm

    I definitely think a psitive mindset is something that you can develop. I like to think I am a very positive person (well, with occasional peri-menopausal lapses lol!). Lovely post!
    Hugs
    Suzy (The Grey Brunette)

    • Moumous says

      January 17, 2023 at 2:16 am

      I love that ” with occasional peri-menopausal lapses” – lmao.Yes you can train yourself to become positive (or more positive). The key here is to practice mindfulness :-).
      Thank you Suzy

  6. Leslie Susan Clingan says

    January 22, 2023 at 5:19 am

    I think I possess 3 of the 5 mindsets. Struggle with acceptance and optimism, in my own life. I can be accepting and more optimistic about others’ lives. Need to work on both areas. Thank you for joining the Ageless Style gals.

  7. chickenruby says

    January 22, 2023 at 8:59 pm

    All qualities I see in myself after several years living abroad.
    Thanks for linking with #pocolo

  8. Carol says

    January 23, 2023 at 8:40 pm

    Thank your for sharing this post in the Talent-Sharing Tuesdays Link-Up 49.
    Carol
    http://www.scribblingboomer.com

  9. Carol says

    January 24, 2023 at 6:18 pm

    Thank you for sharing this post in the Talent-Sharing Tuesdays Link-Up 50.
    Carol
    http://www.scribblingboomer.com

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Special gratitude to the Style Coaching Institute @stylecoachinginstitute for this recognition. What an absolute honor to be acknowledged by the organization that helped shape my passion into purpose.

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To my amazing clients who trusted me with their transformation journeys - this award is truly for YOU. Your courage to step into your authentic style has inspired me every day.

Special recognition to all the incredible individuals in my empowerment programs - your resilience and transformation remind me why this work matters. Watching you reclaim your confidence and shine your light inspires me beyond words.

A heartfelt congratulations to all the brilliant finalists - today we win together! Your dedication to transforming lives through style is raising the bar for our entire industry.

To my husband, my kids who believe that mom is a super hero, my ride-or-die friends and unwavering support system (you know who you are) - thank you for believing in me even when I didn’t. None of this would have happened without your endless encouragement.

Special gratitude to the Style Coaching Institute @stylecoachinginstitute for this recognition. What an absolute honor to be acknowledged by the organization that helped shape my passion into purpose.

The journey continues, and I’m taking you all with me! Get ready for more - I am going to spam you with all the excitement! 💫 

#StyleCoachOfTheYear #ForeverGrateful #DreamComeTrue #StyleEmpowerment
And Just Like That... Season 1 of 'Elegance Et Moi And Just Like That... Season 1 of 'Elegance Et Moi with LaMoumous' has wrapped! 🎬✨ This YouTube series was created with one mission: to promote self-confidence and help you embrace your unique beauty.

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"Et voilà... La Saison 1 d'Elegance Et Moi avec LaMoumous vient de se terminer ! 🎬✨ Cette série YouTube a été créée avec une seule mission : promouvoir la confiance en soi et vous aider à embrasser votre beauté unique.

Laissez un commentaire pour nous dire quel(s) épisode(s) était/étaient votre/vos préféré(s) et ce que vous aimeriez voir dans notre prochaine saison !

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Merci pour tout votre soutien tout au long de cette aventure !

#EleganceEtMoi #Stylecoach #personalstylist #SelfConfidence #imageconsultant
Ton jean usé mérite une seconde vie 👖✨ Voic Ton jean usé mérite une seconde vie 👖✨
Voici 5 idées pour le styliser avec classe et sans effort !
Et si t’en as pas encore, le modèle parfait t’attend chez Glamur Boutique @glamurboutiquehaiti 😉

#Styletips #styleinspo #ideetenue #stylecoach #Imagecosultant #GlamurBoutique #LamoumousStyle
🌸✝️ Wishing you a blessed Easter. May this 🌸✝️ Wishing you a blessed Easter.

May this season of resurrection inspire you to rise in faith, realign with grace, and walk each day toward what God has placed within you.
Take this time to reconnect, lift your spirit, and believe "again" in yourself, your calling, and the One who leads your steps.

-------
🌸✝️ Joyeuses Pâques à vous qui me lisez.

Que cette saison de résurrection vous inspire à vous relever avec foi, à vous recentrer avec grâce et à avancer, jour après jour, vers ce que Dieu a déposé en vous.

Prenez le temps de vous reconnecter, d’élever votre esprit, et de croire "encore"en vous, en votre mission, et en Celui qui vous guide.

#lamoumous #stylecoach #imageconsultant #personalstylist #easterbunny #eastersunday 

@carlic9

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