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5 Ways to boost your style confidence and have more fun when dressing up

May 14, 2021 by Moumous |

Hi everyone,

Happy Thursday! When it comes to having great style, knowing what types of colors, silhouettes, and pieces you love and how they all fit together, is only part of the equation. The other part is having the confidence to actually wear those things. Today, I am sharing 5 tips to help you boost your style confidence in order for you to have more fun with fashion.

1- Dress your best right now

Your life is on hold because you haven’t achieved all of your goals yet: losing weight, graduating, getting your dream job, or something else. Never wait to embrace your unique style and dress exactly how you want to dress. This one is so important. Stop waiting, If any case, dress based on how you see yourself dress when you reach that goal.

2- Develop your own look

It’s fine to get inspired by others, but I believe that as women we are already way too often encouraged to emulate other “prettier, more successful” women rather than think for ourselves and make our own decisions about what to wear and what to look like. Comparing yourself is never a good idea if you care about your self-esteem.

3- Get rid of clothes that make you feel bad

If your closet makes you feel bad about yourself whenever you open it, it’s time to do something about that: Throw out clothes that are too tight, don’t fit, or that you wear to cover up or blend in. Need advice on how to detox your closet? Watch out for next Tuesday’s post.

4- Rewrite your inner monologue

Pay attention to the things you say to yourself all day in your head. Do you talk to yourself with respect and compassion, like you do with your closest friends? Or can you be a real bully? Notice what negative phrases you repeat all the time and train yourself to replace them with more positive and respectful self-talk. Seek help if it’s too challenging for you.

5- Expand your fashion comfort zone little by little

Train yourself to become more confident when it comes to fashion, by taking baby steps. Pair a single bolder piece with your basics for example, or wear a toned-down version of your goal looks and see how you feel. You can take it up a notch step by step until your comfort zone is big enough to cover all of the colors, silhouettes, and looks that you love – no matter how daring they seem to you right now.

Outfit details

Savage Tee@stephcollection @Khiani | Skirt (super old @chicwish)|
Shoes @maisondelachaussure | Clutch @lilophia | Bracelets & earings @CayartBijoux

Sunglasses @glamurboutique

So what are the clothing pieces that you tend to avoid but that you are actually dreaming of wearing? or were you able to get over that fear of expressing yourself thru clothes? Or you never had an issue assuming your personality when it comes to clothing? Please comment below and let me know. I can’t wait to read your feedback below.

Thanks for stopping by,

XoXo

Moumous

Linking up with those wonderful ladies here

Camera @MJPhotography

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  1. Avec Amber says

    May 19, 2021 at 9:44 pm

    Your skirt is fabulous, and I love that you added pops of red too! So chic!

    I hope you are having a great week so far!

    Amber

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    • Moumous says

      May 27, 2021 at 6:49 pm

      Thank you Amber 😉

  2. Mica says

    May 22, 2021 at 10:28 pm

    Such a fun skirt and great tips! 🙂

    Hope you are having a nice weekend 🙂 Thanks so much for joining the #WeekdayWearLinkup!

    Away From The Blue

    • Moumous says

      May 27, 2021 at 6:50 pm

      Thank you Mica

  3. Shelbee on the Edge says

    May 25, 2021 at 12:58 pm

    Moumous, this outfit is so much fun! I adore that gorgeous skirt. And the graphic tee pairing really keeps it modern and cool! Really great tips as well. Expanding your style comfort zone and changing your inner monologue are two things that I am always working on! Thanks for sharing and linking with me.

    Shelbee
    http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com

    • Moumous says

      May 27, 2021 at 6:55 pm

      Thank you Shelbee – I love that skirt too – I had it resized from 6 to 0 lol 🙂 so important to get out of your style comfort zone. Keeps you young and it's fun 🙂

  4. Carla says

    June 2, 2021 at 2:12 pm

    I love this outfit! I've paired a casual item (graphic t) with a dressy one (skirt) plenty of times. But, I wouldn't have been so bold to pair that skirt with the black and red top. However, with the red pumps, lips, and bag it looks intentional and oh so chic!
    http://www.teachinstyle.com

  5. Suzy, The Grey Brunette says

    June 6, 2021 at 7:53 am

    This advice is priceless! And your outfit is absolutely gorgeous—especially that tee! LOVE LOVE LOVE!
    I have a weekly link-up on a Friday. I'd love to see you there!
    Hugs
    Suzy xx
    http://www.thegreybrunette.com

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