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The Woman Who Sits Like This Has Been Through Things…

May 21, 2025 by Moumous | 3 Comments

…and still shows up beautifully.

SHOP THE LOOK

This isn’t just a look.
This is a chapter.

Camouflage pants, pointed-toe heels, a structured knit with sculpted sleeves, sunglasses on indoors — this isn’t about fashion. This is about presence. About a woman who doesn’t just walk into a room — she owns her seat in it.

But let’s be honest:
The woman who sits like this?
She’s been through things.

She knows what it means to rebuild — not just her closet, but herself. She’s had to make bold decisions. She’s been underestimated. She’s swallowed words to keep the peace and later had to find her voice again.
And now, she sits here. Head up. Chin rested on a hand that no longer shakes. Legs crossed with intention. Confidence not loud, but undeniable.

Every piece tells a story:
  • The camo pants – She’s been in survival mode before. She’s had to blend in, stay ready, fight softly. Now she wears them not to hide — but to say: I’m still standing.
  • The sculptural cardigan – Strong lines on soft fabric. That delicate balance she’s mastered between boundaries and grace.
  • The pearl-embellished heels – She still sparkles, just differently now. Not to be seen — but to honor herself.
  • The sunglasses – Mystery, maybe. Or maybe it’s protection. Or power. Because some stories don’t need to be told — just felt.

This isn’t just styling.
This is soul work.

She didn’t wake up like this.

She chose this.
Every detail. Every texture. Every pose.

And maybe that’s the invitation here — for you too, to sit differently. To show up in your own style not to impress, but to express.
To reclaim pieces of yourself you once gave away.
To wear strength with softness.
To sparkle again — when you’re ready.

Because the woman who sits like this has been through things…
And she’s just getting started.

See also: Vintage Style In an Elevator: A Birthday Reflection

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Xo,

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Photo Credit Eddy P Photography ;

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Comments

  1. Jacqui Berry says

    May 22, 2025 at 7:32 pm

    Beautiful shots and well said. Thanks for sharing Iris x Jacqui x

    Reply
  2. chickenruby says

    May 25, 2025 at 9:32 pm

    Thank you for sharing with #pocolo. I chose my clothes by how I’m feeling

    Reply
  3. Jeanne says

    May 26, 2025 at 4:14 pm

    Great post! This part particularly speaks to me…

    “She didn’t wake up like this.
    She chose this.
    Every detail. Every texture. Every pose.”

    It makes me stop and think…

    Reply

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Wearing the flag not just on me, but within me. Honoring Haiti, always.

Camera @frederickalexis (archives 2021 :-))

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